This helped alot. How do I get to askin u further Q's if I need ur views?. When influenced by . I'm lost I want to beg and ask him why but you know how that will go. I, personally, always stay very affectionate, even when I don't want the relationship to move too fast. we began talking hanging out things moved Fast. Being a Libra my emotions took over and I texted him to say hi, still nothing, so I sent him a nice message and still nothing. I emailed him etc all the things I shouldn't have done but gave it a NC after and messaged him on fb and it was all ok again. he's just another player, and seeing him with another girl confirmed this. Thank you for your words of encouragement. I'm a scorpio. even as a friend it was hard to deal with this behavior and he was never there when i needed him, yet i was always there when he needed a friend; it was definitely always a one-sided friendship, although he'd probably deny that. An emotionally unavailable man that keeps coming back whenever he feels like it, isn't worth it. I tried to give him his space but he never wanted tht. He always talked about putting a ring on it. He ignored my calls & replied only to a few texts when he felt like. OMG thank you, this helps tremendously .. Join in and write your own page! Though their approach to sexual intimacy differs, here too they are complementary. What can you make of an Aquarius man who I know from the past 3 mnths who usually does talk abt his ex girlfriends but today he mentioned abt meeting 1 of his ex gf and also said that he "MIGHT" go to meet her i'm an aqua girl too and don't forget that the general traits are same whether its a man or woman, so if you want keep space and not show any emotions so will the girl. Goodmorning texts every morning, on the phone all the time, spending plenty of time together. If you want an Aries to shower you with comforting words, you probably pick the wrong person. Make sure that you are working on your own goals and she will respect you in return, which may bring her closer. WHAT TO EXPECT FROM THIS ARIES MAN. Beginnings are always important, so it helps if an Aries woman and Pisces man know a little about what to expect before they embark on their first date. I am a virgo female and met an Aqaurius and the connection is amazing, we can talk for hours and hours and not get bored. Btw, Im a Scorpio, Your email address will not be published. I am addressing that and we had a while where only 1 argument and I didn't run, he talked me out of it. Can Aquarius Man and Aries Woman Make a Promising Couple? He messaged me every day the next week and was very affectionate and I mentioned a few times that I wanted to see him again but he won't commit to a date. Drag him out, don't pay him any attention quickly. Its worth noting that a toxic trait or two doesnt make you a toxic person. Next, he avoids making any concrete plans at all. He even sent a telegram that it was over and he didn't want to see me anymore, apparently not realizing that I already made that decision by cutting him out of my life. Its totally normal for him to pop in and out. Patricia has been working as a counseling astrologer for more than 25 years. I feel like telling him to forget it right now but I know that I'll melt as soon as I hear from him and its just so out of character for me, i'm usually much stronger. He's on my Facebook and I have sent him messages first to talk to him and just recently I sent him a message saying I want a relationship and no friend thing if he's not ok with that to delete me off his Facebook ..well he hasn't deleted me but hes still on with ignoring my messages. I got very jealous of him speaking to another woman which isn't my ordinary self as I am a libra and very much a flirt too. how come? If an Aries woman dislikes anything, it's a man of weak character and ambition. I was the reason for our problems. One day of all the sudden I confronted him about a lady he was talking on FB and he cut me and did not call me ever again. He has work commitments in other countries for the next three weeks. The next day he was acting shady & I discovered he was in the company of another woman while he was ignoring me..this all happened in real time. Your Venus sign is the zodiac placement of the planet of love and beauty at your time of birthso it can explain a lot about your romantic attractions. He always has an excuse. so he took it back to resize it, then we r long distance again, and u know what? You know it's solid when he starts including you in his business plans and vision. If your path is to build more attraction, I recommend you read my guide on how to attract an Aquarius man. Aquarius typical disappearing act by: Pissed off Cancer . By understanding someone and how they view things it's easy to make yourself more attractive to them. I mean i dont mind giving him hes space like if he wants the whole day go head but if u tell me ima call u back then do so.. dont be saying ill call u back and just call me 2 days after thats meannn.. A week after that he asked me to marry him and we've been married for 27 years. They are quick to retaliate when they are hurt and will usually react in anger. All they think about is how to get what they want. Luckily, having a partner like Aries woman will make him put down his guards some days. Aries and Taurus Compatibility - 12 months. Yes, sis, he can change. Required fields are marked *. Not only giving and taking, but each side also needs to guide, mellow and heal their significant other. The answer to these questions would help you draw a done line between a man who cares for you and keeps showing up and the one who shows up to take advantage of you. Its best to get out early than drag things on to avoid being hurt. This is to keep you from getting too close b/c he has a life which you do not fit in too. The evolution of Aries results in a patient but powerful person. I think some of my questions have been answered. He may mean well but don't talk about if it you're not about it. Her "just do it" way of living sparks him to act on his dreams and imaginings. They, like Aquas, live in their own realm. He once told me that when he doesn't want someone anymore he just stops talking to them. Good luck. You don't think we are scared too?? It's kind of depressing to me, actually. Be that special lady there when he needs support and an euphoria outside of his crazy hectic life. Lmao). Sometimes a few times a week, sometimes not for 6 weeks. They don't act, but rather react to you. weird and ridiculous. The attraction is there but we have ZERO in common. Hi ladies! This inconsistent, aloof communication is a hallmark of an uninterested Aquarian man. I had aqua males in my life too, the ones that were doing disappearing act r just having someone else. Thanks for any feedback, I need some hope or not. Are you feeling crazy right now as your Ram partner is on his ignoring spree? They are full of life and thus take every day as it comes. Some of my friends tell me to make a move, but why would I do that? I am astonished by all these helpful comments about Aquarius men. Then he pulled it again. so, for 7 years we were dating from his warped aqua perspective; he didn't even need or want sex to consider us a relationship. There's a difference between a person who keeps putting in work because they care about you and another who's just using you because he's aware you'd be available. Ok. If he wants something, he has to do whatever it takes to achieve it. Dreamy, mysterious, secluded, and secretive is Piscean energy. But im in the period of Telling him how i really feel about him dissapearing.. How compatible is Aries woman with Aquarius man? (Though, quick side note. The break up was never made official by phone call or conversation. and do just like your men are doing and cut and run. Their touch is gentle and sweet, nothing demanding or rough, more like a kitten trying to get your attention all the time. Good luck! I mean everybody has issues but 4 me my good out weight the bad. He replied to a few texts & ignored the rest. Yes he is very affectionate, and reading this article it makes me feel sick to think that he is not meaning to be affectionate and its just accidental signals he sends - and the reasons for his disappearing being a mental freak out- indicates that I am dealing with a child? Plus, regrets like this don't always come immediately after the breakup and he may never admit it, especially if he's one of those stubborn Zodiac signs. now that i look back he was freaked out by it and so was i!! I have a lot of frustration and hurt feelings and I want to express them, but at the same time I don't want to give him the satisfaction o seeing the effect his disappearing act has had on me. Dont try to make him jealous when he is ignoring you to get his attention. Before I read this great information I didn't know how to deal with the Aquatius male. I had known for sure that he liked me but couldn't ask me out. lol. In the first few weeks after he starts ignoring you, you should not call, email, or text him anything. He does it all. Previous to that I had only had one date in 5 years after separating from a long term relationship. All our friends who've seen us together say there's undeniable attraction between us. I can play that game for a short time, but my patience is gone, and I've had enough. They need people around them who are strong because of their childlike attitude towards everything. Basically, he does not know how to handle his feelings and often acts first before thinking. If i had a problem he would find a way to make it about him or i was the problem. How do you think I ended up here :)? If something is wrong in the relationship, she expects her partner to be direct and straightforward. guy from work first initiates "us" going out. She is pushy and playful, and breaking his emotional walls is a great challenge to her. I thought it was cute at 1st. We both admitted that we started having emotional connections with eachother. If you have a job and your own business than why do they lie and take from other femals, that stuff is not right. For those of you who have kept going with these guys for over a year I take my hat off to you, really!! They are impossible to ignore in a crowd. Before he finds his interest in writing, he previously played as the guitarist in a band for nearly 5 years. They will send txt's to you one minute saying how he can't wait to see you and the next he pulls a dissapearing act while he's dating others. but finnaly he got me again =.= hes just like a puppy! CONT..I may SEEM strong, but this has taken me months to get to this point. I didn't mind because he complimented me often at his OWN will about how smart I am. Am I wasting my time? Until Saturday. Thank you Anna! But he always looked 4 the worse in me which was not much 2 look 4. They act on gut feelings leading to many impulsive decisions.. I am a pisces girl and had a crush on this aquarius for about 6 months. First I have to say, everything you wrote is 110% on point. But as time goes on so must I. I know that regardless of if I like someone he is not required to like me. but then when he come again, hed prefer hang out with my friend and her bf while im sick at work! I'm always worried that when I talk to someone, I may lose interest (not in a mean way, just in a way that there is a whole huge world out there and there's a lot to experience.) Explore hidden factors such as physical attraction so you can see the whole picture of your relationship. An Aries woman's personality is very boastful and chirpy. I mean who does that to someone? een seeing this aquarian man for 4months. and then he bought plane ticket vacation for us, i mean he full of surprise (which is hard for me to not meltttt =.=) doh! They have many common traits, especially the love for adventures and social exploration, so no wonder these two get along well. What do you think of that Aquarius man who wrote this article? I will say this though, that one of the many things I DO like about an Aquarius is how they are clingy and super needy, and for me this a huge plus, but then that "super detachment" thing they do comes into play, and you have to decide just how much of this you can take because it's tough to not get any, if much, feedback on how they feel about youlife must go on!! (( I think it's one of those stupid contradictions us Aquariuses are known for)) If you're Aquariuses is being very romantic, rushing along, don't just assume that he is ready for a relationship! To understand a guy with this zodiac star sign, youve got to be very attentive. I agree not to ask them where they are or calling as if u r investigating on and if u do that, the aquarian man will lie to you so as not to hurt your feelings. I want someone who makes me feel good (we all deserve that don't we?) To lie is very easy. You can learn more about how this tool works by clicking here. This is creepy but I didn't mind because it was him. Ruled by Mars planet, a person whose birth date falls between March 20th and April 19th is usually frank about what he feels and thinks. Wow! .3 weeks maybe cause he just disappeared. Written by experts. I have put up with this as long as I can, I have understood he needs time and space.. I truly haven't cared for someone or wanted to give my heart to someone in so long. Does he send you flowers? so yea we argue a lil bit but most of the time he was very sweeet carried me when im tired and always smiling! You should know that love doesn't only feel good, it feels safe. I never bother bout what people think because we really are best of friends! I really hope this helps! I never denied the attraction but i don't want to do anything bout it because i don't want to spoil our friendship. Should I leave him alone to 'potter' and may be wait 4ever to hear from him or should I send the txt to find out where I stand now? I mean he bought me nice things & vice versa. Who i feel don't ever want to commit. And he is questioning my friends too, which I'm having a problem with because I don't question him about his friends. Don't let a man put you on a string like that and Aries guys are prone to pulling such a stunt. They need to do everything right and achieve heights in their career. So tired of the cat and mouse game. But, before we get into the meat of why an Aries man is so often like this, let me introduce a tool that can help you understand what hes doing when youre not around. do i back off as well? Thanks Her self-improvement is so captivating to Aquarius man. They envy those who are more wealthy, more famous, and closer to their goals. Let go and Move on. You have to mimic them. When they feel hurt, theyneedto discuss it, so let them say their piece. He acted as if he didn't care to lose me at all. Ask if there are any specific reasons. I'm tryin so hard fr this to wrk but I'm still confused wht's goin on in his head, whether he is jst using me, or he aint sure abt me that's y he keeps spacin out, or that he likes me but is still lookin fr someone else??? It's Sunday. Which I think was a bad idea. I can't keep taking the initiative (he has asked first a couple of times though to be fair or am I just making excuses for him?!). Give him space, dont push him to talk to you. Today I did some P.I work and saw that he had reactivated his okcupid account. Best of luck to everyone! I never contacted him @ all. Dont be surprised if your Aries man is so affectionate but then suddenly ignore you. so i didn't, i let him be and kept pursuing my goals, even hung out with my ex again for a few months. Related:How to Get an Aquarius Man to Chase You Endlessly. It is highly likely that Aries traits in females make her act all childish when they receive less attention from their better halves. He never acted like it. Which I have told him it pisses me off. When they get bored, or things are not going the right way, they would call it a quit. But like Taylor said, If you make us feel guilty, we'll leave you. . They do have the mutual understanding and mutual admiration for each other, so things between them are quite harmonious. This disappearing thing they do has got be one of the most perplexing and annoying things they do, even though I completely understand the need for "alone time" and "freedom" because I'm a lot like this myself, but the other thing he does that makes me, like others, want to slap the snot out of him, is him not replying when you can be in the middle of a texting conversation, and POOF, he's vanishes no into thin air, and you have no fricken idea WHY or what the heck is going on, and when you do ask you get no reply, which is just so immature and disrespectful, or at least that's how it comes across, and this just drives me nuts, nuts, nuts!!! 9 years is a long time to be with someone. Let them do them. says. It can very intense as they do or say things theyll regret laterfrom punching a wall to screaming hurtful things. we broke up again after 1 week vacation with me he said he cant get married with me bla bla bla, and after 8months break up, he called me everyday i mean everyday! These guys are used to girls throwing themselves at them, so when a girl isn't all that impressed they take notice. Movin on down the road to a real man not a scared little boy. It all comes across rather childish and while it will NEVER be me to chase him, if he contacts me, unless i move onto someone, i will answer him and leave it to go how it goes, provided he is not rude because if he is, then he will be ignored until he finds a way to rectify it and i will not take any s*it, and will cut him out of my mind while he is acting the fool.. On writing this, i fell like i should change my number but when i cut him off once before, he got frightened and turned up at the front door days later.. Trust me, he has others. Lol. His laid-back passivity gives her permission to slow down and relax. he drives me crazy when he just dissapear :( Im not like the typical cancer im fun,outgoing,very indepandant, and i love going out im modern.. That doesn't make sense to me. I feel so upset to think that it's probably all over (even though it never really seemed to get started!) This means fun and fascinating excursions away from crowds and bright city lights would be the best dating activities for these two. How? I don't have the patience for these strategic land mines. As an Aries, patience is not a strength of mine. Use your good luck and power shades in all aspects of your life for an extra boost of good fortune. When he has NEVER caught me doing a thing. I really like this guy and it seems to be a list cause. They usually have a big group of friends because they are very quirky. I realized after his break that I should not say I am going to leave as this frightens him, so he says and he is unsure if he wants to move forward when he feels threatened that I will leave. Not that I'm thinking he's cheating/seeing other women on me, just that these disappearing acts better be for what he says they are because I have a heck of an intuition. It is hard to confine them in any situation or environment. Then we lost contact somehow for about 2months. But the Aquarian man is a direct and analytical guy. Hence it seems they can see into your thoughts and say or do the right thing at the right time. They select lovers and friends both that last long. I would have to say to the girls dating these men, I play the WIFE that doenst provide many emotional needs so he wonders to talk to you but don't get to involved cause I/Aries am the one he has always wanted to be with but life/stress take a toll and you are the "outlet" fantasy to escape from the reality he really wants but can't always make work. He is he one man who made me feel like a princess in the tower, and he charging to save me on his black steed. To Aquarius man, he wont stop his chasing with just mere flirtation as he knows that cant impress her. Im a genuine aqua man, and only thing i have to add for the ladies having troubles with their aqua man is just be as supportive as you can. we are beautiful people, this could be our dream come true, or at the least we will inspire each other as great sexy friends, cheer us on!!! I'm Michelle Devani and would like to take this opportunity to welcome you to my site. And we did! We have done the break up thing 5 times. Is it true that he is really pulling away from you or just focusing on other matters? An Aries woman is someone who always needs attention from her friends and family. I am losing my mind actually =| HE approached ME, and adamantly. Worse I don't think I can deal with these periods where I am being made to feel like I'm his nextdoor neighbour, mate or sister. Pisces will be a good fit. This time he wasnt & I felt so wounded that I unleashed on him & accused him of using me to satisfy his ego, of not loving me but loving the way I made him feel as a man & accused him of having sex with that woman. Thus sometimes, they dont act on logic but a mixture of anger and the urge to win. He told me during this time that he was dealing with some stuff. No. I am courteous and timely in my responses (text communication) however, I find this mental confusion uninteresting. Then the next day I didn't hear from him. now that i look back we've been "dating" for 9 months, taking it ridiculously slow, barely starting to get to know each other. He disappears often. He also said "please don't pressure me it only make me feel worse" I'm so confused if you read all the heartfelt texts I received from him no joke you'd be like an aquarian said those things. Find out what astrology has to say about your unique partner and relationship beyond just sun signs. the key is be patient! I so wish I had an Aquarian friend like you to help me make the right decisions. My friendship with him is too precious to lose it just like that without giving a try to do something bout it. and then he never called me again but he still send msg on fb =.= i still love him, what should i do to handle him? Preface: One woman army of the zodiac. So, if he makes you a part of it or suspends it even for a little while for you, you're important to that man. The best course of action is to let their fire of rage burn out by giving them space. i cant stand it and i think he is serious so i should give him another change, and after a month we got together, he said "we need to tal" he said i still same i still funny and cute but he is just doesnt love me as much as before! though, i heard males are more prone to cheat, but like i said everyone is different. I am a scorpio. Capricorn Colors That Bring Good Luck and Power. i mean his laptop on cus he wants me to speak with his mum, and he fall asleep and i got so mad at him! It's easy to do. You dont need an article on the internet to tell you this. He just looked at me for a minute, grabbed my boob but stopped himself, gave me a kiss & told me he loves me. When Aries gets sick, they really get sick. Keep your mind open for stories because he's going to rain them on you just to gain your empathy. I would like to open up to him but am afraid it would be way to much for him, I find myself holding back. It was about him,the kids, his family, friends, his baby mama drama & I came LAST! Even if he is angry with me or has changed his mind about me then he should be a man and say that. It never bothered me bc he was always honest with me about it. It's never too late to begin again. he recently told me that he likes me and that he would wait 2 have sex with me (btw im 17 hes 19). Thus signs like Gemini, Leo, Sagittarius, and Aquarius work well with an Aries. Get to Know Aries Attractive Traits, What Do Aries Men Like in a Woman? The next few days we talked once a day and then all of a sudden I didn't hear from him at all. And this toxic trait either makes them dictators or lone wolves. This is not a perfect match or a match made in heaven; hence, it needs hard work for the relationship to work. At the center of "The Disappearing Act" is an impetuous British actress named Mia Eliot, who flies to Los Angeles for high-stakes auditions. An introduction to synastry and compatible astrology. Due to the differences, they both need work to find the harmony in their emotional connection. This is all understandable as i like to have my freedom too.